About 14 years ago, a lady read one of my books and called me because I wrote that the statement, “Givers never lack” is not true, it is a lie designed by manipulative pastors to steal from gullible, ignorant, blind sheep.
This lady attended David Oyedepo’s winners chapel at that time and knew that I was talking about him. She said that I was ‘bold’ to write that about him. I was deeply persuaded that he was wrong on that teaching. To write such a thing in a book which sold at winners chapel itself was either boldness or stupidity, I can’t be certain which it was. Continue reading
Some of you are waiting for your pastor, bishop, prophet, apostle to lay hands on you, ordain you and ‘release’ you into ministry. You will wait until you are 100 years old, and while waiting you will become totally useless to yourself, the kingdom and the world. You will also become discouraged, angry and bitter. Continue reading
1. Years ago, I met a millionaire. He taught me 3 lessons.
1. Never ask your friends for financial help. They will look down on you.
2. No matter how bad things are, always look good. Do not let anyone see you sweat.
3. Do not spread your problems around. People will avoid you.
2. When you are a millionaire and start asking other millionaires for help, that means you have fallen. They will never send opportunity your way because you have become a financial risk.
Ask for advice.
Don’t ask for money.
Your dignity and respect are intact.
3. I watched this on 700club.
A millionaire fell into financial difficulty. He didn’t ask anybody for help. He didn’t declare bankruptcy to protect his personal assets.
He started SELLING his property to pay back debts.
Don’t beg for money.
Ask for advice.
Friends will respect you.
4. You guys are under the dangerous assumption that all your friends want you to be successful. Some are envious of your success.
It was Joseph’s brothers who wanted to destroy him. Friends could have done worse.
Maintain your dignity, self respect and honour.
Don’t ask for money.
5. Your friends don’t owe you money.
You cannot use friendship to compel or manipulate them to give you money.
Money is NOT a reward for friendship.
Money is a reward for value.
6. Called a friend who has connections on 3 continents. Big guy. I asked him how I can add value to his organisation. Shared some ideas with him. He was excited about the possibilities.
Do I need more money?
Never asked for $1.
Friendship, respect, honour intact.
Charlie, Susan’s husband went to war. He wrote letters consistently to his wife Susan for 350 days and they were delivered always by the same postman, John.
After one year, Charlie returned home from war, and Susan got married to John, the postman.😭
Moral: Consistency Pays.😂
What we see consistently, who we interact with consistently is who and what we will be attracted to.
It is the power of advertising.
You see an advert for 30 days straight and it gets into your subconscious.
Always position yourself before your audience. Consistency Pays.
Some of you guys are so stupid. You have this hot babe you want to marry and you allow your friends to see her when you are not around and chat with her. One day, the power of consistency will kick in and they will get attracted to each other and boom! Be wise.
Many of you don’t post anything.
You don’t retweet or share.
You don’t make contributions.
People don’t see you.
They don’t know you exist.
But you call yourself ‘a brand influencer.’
My good friend, you are not influencing nothing.
People are attracted to ONLY what and who they see.
Have you seen some really useless accounts that have immoral, vile, disgusting content, BUT they have so many followers?😭
That account is consistently posting rubbish. Those who like such rubbish see it daily and are attracted to it and the account grows.
Please, follow God, not man.
If you feel inclined to do full time ministry, do it in peace. If you feel you should not do any business, do not do it. If you want to collect tithe, offerings, collect it in peace. All the people telling you to ‘go and get a job’, none of them called you, they are not your God, they did not call you into ministry.
If you are sure the Holy Spirit told you to focus on your ministry, then do it. Let God prove himself in your life. As long as you don’t manipulate people, and you walk in integrity, let God prove Himself in your life.
You shouldn’t allow social media determine who or what you are.
None of these people will stand with you before the Lord. You will stand alone. Therefore, you should be fully persuaded in your heart about your beliefs. You will be held accountable for all you do, whether in ministry, business or in your personal life, so you better make sure you are walking with the Lord.
I want you to know that the Lord who called you will perform his word in your life. Look on to the Lord, never to man, because men by nature are wicked and will fail you. The Lord who called you will never leave you nor forsake you.
You will be fine.
Do Not Sit By A Dry Brook.
Elijah sat down on a rock in contemplation. Something was wrong. He could sense it. Yesterday, he discovered that the brook Cherith from where he had drank water for months had stopped flowing. All he had left was a skin full of water. He knew it wouldn’t last beyond the next day. He shifted uneasily on the rock and looked east with expectation, waiting for the ravens to swoop down and bring him the meal for the day. Since he obeyed the instructions of the Lord and came here, the Lord had hidden him from the persecution of that worshipper of baal, that souless murderer, Jezebel. The birds had brought him bread and meat in the morning and repeated the same meal in the evening. The birds had always been on time. They never failed to show up. But this morning, they were late in coming. It had never happened before. He shielded his creased brow from the morning sun with his cloak. But Elijah waited in vain. The ravens never showed up.
The brook had dried up, but Elijah sat there, waiting. While Elijah waited at that dry brook, the Lord had prepared a widow in his next location of assignment, to feed him and sustain him through the famine. But Elijah did not know this, so he sat down by a dry brook brooding.
What is a dry brook?
A dry brook is what is no longer producing fruit, positive results for you.
A dry brook is no longer meeting your needs.
A dry brook is what used to increase you but now impoverishes you.
A dry brook sucks your creativity.
A dry brook is what viciously limits your productivity.
A dry brook is a place of broken dreams.
A dry brook is a place of failure.
A dry brook is a place of disappointment, frustration and emptiness.
A dry brook refers to a past season.
A dry brook is a past phase in your life.
A dry brook is a relationship which has ran its course and exhausted its usefulness.
A dry brook is a job which no longer brings you joy or a business which is no longer growing. Continue reading