Why Do ‘Bad Girls’ Get The Good Guys?
Ladies complain that it is the bad girls who get married to the good guys.
Who is a ‘bad girl’? She’s a girl who has very ‘loose’ morals or no morals at all.
She’s the kind of girl who jumps from one man to another. She’s called a ‘slut’ because she has a way with men. Men seem to WANT her as soon as they meet her.
She also knows how to use her sexuality to attract a man.
Now that we are done with this definition, there are a few things about ‘bad girls’ that should be useful to you if you want to get a good guy.
‘Bad girls’ have well developed social skills. They wear the right clothes, shoes and know how to connect in social settings. I met some ladies a few years ago and I asked them what they were doing for the weekend. They said ‘nothing.’ I reminded them that a good man won’t come looking for them in their bedroom. From the look on their faces, I am sure they understood what I meant.
‘Bad girls’ have well developed emotional intelligence. Some of you very ‘spiritual’ sisters will be disappointed to know that a man is NOT interested in your spirituality as much as he claims to be. Sure, he wants a spiritual lady in his life, but he also has emotional needs. It is the lady who meets those emotional needs who will end up winning his heart.
Emotional intelligence is your ability to connect emotionally with a man. It has nothing to do with your intellect, educational qualifications, your social status or even your physical beauty. There are ladies who are not physically attractive but men are all over them. Why? It’s simply because they understand how to touch the emotional centres of a man’s soul. When you connect with a man emotionally, the rest is easy.
Some time ago, I spoke with a very successful business woman who was single and had a tough time relating with her man. I noticed that she could ‘control’ dozens of men in the office but she couldn’t negotiate an emotional relationship with ONE man! When she was at her job, she was the boss and all the guys around her cowered before her. However, when it came to connecting with the man she was interested in getting married to, she couldn’t handle him. She had very low emotional intelligence and was still single when she could have been happily married.
One more thing. Bad girls know how to use their sexuality to connect with a man. They emphasise their ‘difference’ and use this to attract a man. For instance, it is natural for a man to want to RESCUE a woman. If the woman is ‘his type’, and she looks like she needs his help and support, a man will do all that he can to rescue her. Bad girls are expert at feigning weakness or emphasising their feminity so that a man can show his masculinity and strength. The problem with ‘good girls’ is that they show the man that they’ve got ‘everything covered’ and do not need a man, so the man walks away.
How do you fix this situation? Develop your social and emotional intelligence. The rest should come naturally to you. Every woman instinctively knows how to emphasise her feminity when it favours her. Need I say more?