For Single Ladies. 7 Questions You Must Answer Before You Say Yes To That Guy.
1. Is he ready for a real woman or is he looking for someone he can manipulate, control and push around? There should be mutual respect in your relationship.
2. Is he ready for a relationship or is he just looking for a fling? If it is a fling he is looking for, then you are not the girl for him. He should look elsewhere.
3. Is he ready to handle the responsibilities of a relationship with you? Like a lady told me, ‘I have got bills to pay and this man must be ready for that.’ Kinda straight forward, don’t you think?
4. Does he have a very clear direction for his life? A man without clarity is dangerous. Stay away from him. If his life has no semblance of order, he will never bring order into your own life.
5.Is he God-fearing? Is he passionate about Jesus Christ and the Kingdom? If he isn’t, he can do absolutely anything to you without fear or remorse. Going to church doesn’t make a man or woman God-fearing. Devils also attend church.
6. Does he honour women in general? A man who says negative things about women has been hurt severally by women and could be looking for a victim to inflict his revenge upon. Don’t be that victim.
7. Does he always encourage, assist, motivate and push you to do more with your talents, your career and your life? A man who is intimidated by your success is not the man for you. Be patient, your man will find you.