Building A Relationship Takes Years But Destruction Takes Just Seconds.

Building A Relationship Takes Years But Destruction Takes Just Seconds.

1. Any fool can destroy a relationship. Destruction comes very easy. Try dropping an egg and see how easily it breaks. That is how fragile relationships are.

2. Anything good worth having will demand time and effort. If it comes too easy, it may just leave the same way.

3. For a relationship to be successful, you must be willing to make it work.

4. Forget the fantasies you watch on television, things don’t work themselves out unless you do. There’s no ‘living happily ever after’ unless you make it happen.

5. Love is a great feeling. However keeping a relationship successful demands more than your feelings. It takes work.

6. Your emotions can easily lead you astray if you don’t know what you really want. In a moment of monumental stupidity, you can allow your emotions destroy what took you years to build. Don’t allow it.

7. Every relationship is tested. When you pass that test, you will enjoy your journey.

8. It takes wisdom to build a relationship or anything else. If you don’t have the necessary wisdom to make it work, search for it.

9. Before you explode in anger, consider the fact that you are about to throw your whole future away in a few minutes. You don’t have to say every stupid thing that pops into your head. Learn to be patient. Learn to be forgiving.

10. Pride goes before a fall. Learn to be humble and forgive. You are not perfect yourself. Help and support your partner to be the best they can be.



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8 responses to “Building A Relationship Takes Years But Destruction Takes Just Seconds.

  1. Matthew

    I live these lines. Relationships are built on trust, not on emotions. Character and maturity are extremely important in enjoying a good relationship. God bless you, sir, for these words.

  2. Omobolanle Mobby Ojo

    You said it all! Patience is the key in any relationshil.

  3. Cecilia

    Hmmm,dis piece is 4 me,av allowed my emotions 2 dictate 2 me in time pass,and am still paying 4 it. God bless u sir

  4. abiola

    One day I watched someone blowing up balloons for party decorations. It looked like fun but it was hard work. Later I watched children pop them without much effort. It didn’t matter to them how much work went into it. As we were at a wedding party it got me thinking how easy it is to spoil something that has taken time and work to build with the wrong friends in one’s life.

  5. doris a.anku

    i found myself in a very difficult moment of a relationship and i feel like doing just what the caution sentences say. i say this post is really referring to my situation. god bless you. thanks

  6. acho

    i will keep on trying

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