Love Tips. The Law of Agreement.

Love Tips. The Law Of Agreement.

1. A great relationship never happens by chance. It is deliberately created. Your relationship will work when you understand and function by the law of agreement.

2. Two cannot walk together unless they are in agreement. Amos 3:3. What this simply means is that no matter what you feel you’ve got going in your relationship, if there is no agreement, it won’t work.

3. Before you commit yourself to a relationship, ask yourself: ‘what do we have in common with each other?’ You can write a list. This will help give you some clarity.

4. You should never force a relationship to happen.

For Single Ladies. Green Flags.

For Single Ladies. Green Flags.

1. We have a lot to say about red flags, but very little to say about ‘green flags.Red flags represent ‘danger.’ They mean ‘don’t go near this dude,’ ‘run for your life.’

2. Green flags mean that you can ‘go for it.’ It means that the ‘package is good’. A green flag means that you should ‘move in’ on this guy before someone else gets to him. A green flag tells you that ‘this is it.’

3. When you see a green flag, don’t delay, procrastinate or hesitate.

For Single Ladies. How Many Men Does It Take To Spell STUPID?

For Single Ladies. How Many Men Does It Take To Spell STUPID?

1. You cannot keep doing the same things and expect different results. Someone defined such behaviour as insanity.

2. You may be fast talking and quite persuasive, but if your love life is a mess, then you must be doing something very wrong.

3. Somehow, you’ve always fallen into the hands of wrong men.

For Ladies. Diva or Devil?

For Ladies. Diva or Devil?

1. The media, books and movies have painted the image of a diva in the minds of millions of young ladies as someone worth emulating. Unknown to them, this image could well be that of a devil. Be careful who and what you imitate.

2. Diva wears the latest and most fashionable attires, whether she can afford them or not. Nice clothes are cool as long as you don’t go bankrupt trying to buy them. Wear only what you can afford. If he doesn’t like it, then let him buy what he likes you to wear. But never pressure him for stuff. Wear what you have.

3. Diva is high maintenance.

The Error Of Choosing For Yourself.

Choice has consequence.

Where you are on your life’s journey is as a result of the choices you have made through the years. Nothing happens to us by chance or accident. Most of our life experiences come about as a result of the choices we make.

In this age of motivational teaching, you are encouraged to ‘dream big’, ‘have a big vision’, ‘shoot for the moon,’ etc. You are told to create your own future. You are taught that you ‘have the power within’ to create a great life. There’s a lot that the human mind can accomplish without the help or involvement of God. If you look around you, there are many people who are not Christians who seem to be doing well. I say ‘seem’ because the Bible says that the end of a matter is better than the beginning. What you see, or what you think you see may be plain delusion and may lead down a path of destruction. The Bible says in Proverbs 14:12 that there’s a way that seems right to a man but it ends in death and destruction.

The Fruits Of True Love.

The Fruits Of True Love.

1. When true love finds you, there will be honour and respect attached to it.

2. Love will not humiliate you in any way. If you feel humiliated, ridiculed or embarrassed because of your relationship, there’s something wrong with it. If your partner reminds you daily that he/she is doing you a favour, that is humiliating. You don’t belong in such a relationship. An arrogant person will never find or enjoy true love.

3. Love does not shame you.

The Real Definition Of Success.

The Real Definition Of Success.

If you open any magazine or watch television, you will see men and women who are referred to as successful. These people are rich and have excelled in their calling. They define Success as having money, material possessions, being famous and powerful.

Many people define their lives by the media’s myopic definition of success. They live their lives in an attempt to become like the artistes, politicians, entertainers, preachers, business men and women who are famous. They define their lives by how much money they have acquired or how much material stuff they own. Basically, they define success in financial and materialistic terms. Unless they have enough stuff and money, they feel that they are unsuccessful or to put it plainly, failures. Because of such a definition of success, many are driven by covetousness and greed in an attempt to measure up to the media’s definition of success.